Thoughts.

It struck me as I posted yesterday about KfW2 that we've not seen nor spoken a lot to each other over the past few months.

We do message in work over the IM system, but KfW2 has weird ideas in work. Or at least, she's not consistent. Some days, she can be chatty, other days she'll say nothing, but it's mainly at her discretion. If she's chatty it's because she wants to be, not because I'm coaxing a conversation out of her. We did have a lunch date in July, but it seemed off. I think that was me, seeing as she had cancelled the lunch date several times because of work, when I think she could have refused to attend lunchtime meetings as she had already made plans. That would have been the truth, as well, not some kind of fib and completely acceptable.

I can't remember the last time I saw her kids, though she did make a point of saying that she didn't want to ask me to babysit any more as she felt guilty that we've not yet had our adult day or night out.

Accordingly to Facebook, she is doing more socialising with her daughter's friends' parents - both adult evenings and kid-friendly days out.

Maybe the friendship just has to move on?