I was walking about the town earlier with a few guys from work when we neared a sandwich shop that the guys wanted to visit. As we approached, I peered in to see if it was busy, even though I was going to another shop just up the street when two girls exited. One, blonde and gorgeous, stepped out and I caught her eye by accident and she gave me a HUGE smile. Feeling rather chuffed with myself, I ambled up the road and bought my own sandwich. When the guys rejoined me, one of the guys (renowned as a bit of a ladies man) was very excited.
"Man, did you see the way that girl practically fucked you with her eyes?"
Why, yes. Yes I did. I'd love to get that look when I'm out and about socially, not in the middle of town when I can't approach her!
Still... it put a spring in my step for the rest of the afternoon.
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Monday, April 25, 2011
Inner reflection II
I had a bit of a revelation last weekend. I need to get out of the house more. Over the past two months, I've done pretty much nothing during the week apart from go to work, come home and veg out in front of the telly or the PC of an evening then get up the next morning and repeat. This is partly why I've been in a "meh" mood recently.
It doesn't matter what I do, I think, I just need to get out of the house for a bit during the week - cinema, pub quiz, meet friends any of this will do. With the good weather here, I will make more of an effort to do fun stuff at night.
It doesn't matter what I do, I think, I just need to get out of the house for a bit during the week - cinema, pub quiz, meet friends any of this will do. With the good weather here, I will make more of an effort to do fun stuff at night.
Friday, April 22, 2011
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Mysterious girl...
Work is deteriorating rapidly and gaining momentum and next week will be a pivotal week, I feel. However, I am in an amazing mood. The weather is fantastic and a trip around the shops earlier found me walking behind a rather slim, girl in a summer dress that was rather clingy around the ass, showing off a great set of legs in knee-high boots and vague hint of a g-string (which probably explains why it was a little clingy around the posterior). I've no idea what she looked like - she could have been the least attractive woman in the world or a supermodel. Sadly, I'll never know, but the sight of her slinking along the High Street has definitely given my libido a kick up the arse. A summertime kick-start, if you will.
So have a picture where I pretend this is the girl who was in front of me today.
So have a picture where I pretend this is the girl who was in front of me today.
The model above, while obviously a model and therefore very attractive, reminds me of Near Miss and Pretty Blonde - slim, nice figure, pretty. Near Miss was wearing something similar the night we hooked up, including the g-string, but strappy shoes instead of boots.
Friday, April 15, 2011
Inner reflection
Things have been interesting, from a self-examination perspective, not for any other reason.
Work is still pants. I like the actual work, but the dealing with people is proving tiresome. Everything that's not my core job is much more effort and trouble than it should be.
Either way, that's not why I'm blogging. DSC and myself went out for a drink a few nights ago and eventually we got around to talking about why I was single and my recent online dating experiences (and lack thereof). I explained (as I've already stated on here) that it's been ages since I was last attracted to someone... really attracted to someone. That was RB which was, what, almost three years ago?
Three years. Christ. Anyway, I was telling DSC about the mutual friend with M's fiance - a tall, sexy, intelligent girl who I get along with, and she's someone I feel I should like, but there's no 'spark'. If I were to sit down and make a list of the things I'd like in a partner, she'd tick most of them. She suggested I should maybe try anyway with this girl, but even if dating was on the cards, I'd feel guilty about going on a date when there was no kick of attraction.
On a semi-related note, the same thing can be said about KfW2. She's very much a girl I should be attracted to - the box ticking thing I talk about above applies here as well. Recently, we've been getting along famously. Nothing will ever happen because she's currently in a relationship, but also because I directly work with her and to a lesser extent, because she has a kid.
But DSC's words have started me thinking. Should I start poking about to see if this blonde girl is thinking about entering the dating market again? Part of me is thinking I should and that's not like me at all.
Work is still pants. I like the actual work, but the dealing with people is proving tiresome. Everything that's not my core job is much more effort and trouble than it should be.
Either way, that's not why I'm blogging. DSC and myself went out for a drink a few nights ago and eventually we got around to talking about why I was single and my recent online dating experiences (and lack thereof). I explained (as I've already stated on here) that it's been ages since I was last attracted to someone... really attracted to someone. That was RB which was, what, almost three years ago?
Three years. Christ. Anyway, I was telling DSC about the mutual friend with M's fiance - a tall, sexy, intelligent girl who I get along with, and she's someone I feel I should like, but there's no 'spark'. If I were to sit down and make a list of the things I'd like in a partner, she'd tick most of them. She suggested I should maybe try anyway with this girl, but even if dating was on the cards, I'd feel guilty about going on a date when there was no kick of attraction.
On a semi-related note, the same thing can be said about KfW2. She's very much a girl I should be attracted to - the box ticking thing I talk about above applies here as well. Recently, we've been getting along famously. Nothing will ever happen because she's currently in a relationship, but also because I directly work with her and to a lesser extent, because she has a kid.
But DSC's words have started me thinking. Should I start poking about to see if this blonde girl is thinking about entering the dating market again? Part of me is thinking I should and that's not like me at all.
Saturday, April 02, 2011
The busy social life of ruuude
An interesting few days. Work is still a pain in the ass, but everything that's going wrong is not my fault, so I can relax and just try and do the best that I can.
We had a work night out yesterday that was really good fun. KfW2 and myself are getting along brilliantly, which is still a cause for some bemusement on my part given that I think she didn't actually like me not that long ago. We were swapping banter all last night, even when our respective groups of friends ended up in different bars.
JB and myself continue our banter/flirting. I've said it before and I'll say it again - I won't be making any moves there. She's a really good looking girl, but she's really high maintenance in terms of what she wants from a man. A mutual acquaintance seems to have the hots for her though, and I am amused to watch him in action, especially when JB and I are close and she ends up sitting on my lap or with our arms around each other. I get the feeling he doesn't like me that much!
Finally, two mutual friends of ours had split up months ago and tried to remain friends. We all knew this was going to end in disaster, and boy did it ever last night. This is all still happening, so I'll wait until it all calms down before posting about it in more detail. I am amused by it though... there's an awful lot of stupidity on show.
I'm meeting M tonight for pints. Hopefully his fiance will be there too. I was talking to a mutual friend last night - a really pretty tall blonde girl - I think I've mentioned her on the blog before, laying some ground work for the future, so if M's fiance is out, then I can do more ground work.
We had a work night out yesterday that was really good fun. KfW2 and myself are getting along brilliantly, which is still a cause for some bemusement on my part given that I think she didn't actually like me not that long ago. We were swapping banter all last night, even when our respective groups of friends ended up in different bars.
JB and myself continue our banter/flirting. I've said it before and I'll say it again - I won't be making any moves there. She's a really good looking girl, but she's really high maintenance in terms of what she wants from a man. A mutual acquaintance seems to have the hots for her though, and I am amused to watch him in action, especially when JB and I are close and she ends up sitting on my lap or with our arms around each other. I get the feeling he doesn't like me that much!
Finally, two mutual friends of ours had split up months ago and tried to remain friends. We all knew this was going to end in disaster, and boy did it ever last night. This is all still happening, so I'll wait until it all calms down before posting about it in more detail. I am amused by it though... there's an awful lot of stupidity on show.
I'm meeting M tonight for pints. Hopefully his fiance will be there too. I was talking to a mutual friend last night - a really pretty tall blonde girl - I think I've mentioned her on the blog before, laying some ground work for the future, so if M's fiance is out, then I can do more ground work.
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