In little over a week, my Match.com subscription runs out. This time, emotionally, I think I will be reasonably unscathed. At the same time, in three months, I will probably have messaged about six women, all with the same result. They were all cute and promising, but I've only been messaging those that I would definitely chat to and meet. Only one, as far as I can tell, actually visited my profile, so I guess the others weren't paid up members (despite logging in daily).
In roughly the same time period, on Plenty of Fish, I have messaged no-one as yet (though one girl has stood out) and have only had two visitors to my profile. Two. That's a kick in the balls. Two visitors in a few months on a free website, though I think you do haver the option of effectively hiding your visits to other people's profiles. I don't know why you'd want to do that, but hey ho.
But, with a week to go and a couple of promising looking women on Match, I simply can't summon the energy to drop them a line. I think part of the problem is that there's no spark of real attraction there. They're cute, yes, but they're not exciting me.
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