Bah.

KfW2 called last night. She had promised to call on Wednesday, but in all honesty, those promises don't carry a lot of weight these days. I don't mean that maliciously - she's got three kids, all of whom have their own hobbies, it's bad time of year with her husband working in retail and she has ADD which means she's extremely forgetful.

So we were chatting. I was telling her about recent things - social things, family things etc. and prompted her for her plans in December, gently reminding her that I'd love to see her again. And then that started a long list of social things she already has on for December. 

That's the frustrating part. She suggested maybe doing something with her eldest son, but that's just me being crowbarred into something rather than getting her on her own. The last time she suggested that (this time last year), her son didn't book his flights home in time and the plan got forgotten. It's not that long ago I directly asked for us to do something because it had been a while since we saw each other and IMO we don't see each other enough these days.

She just is incapable of planning anything too far in the future.