Over the past few weeks, well since her formal night out, Sports Girl has been quiet on Whatsapp. Quiet with me, specifically. I've tried to initiate chats and she will respond for a short while, then she'll go quiet. I'm becoming less and less inclined to make any effort. Supposed nights in the pub have not materialised (not that I care in this case - I was with KfW2 and FP), but it's starting to become a thing.
However, last night, my phone pinged quite late - after 10PM. It was SG.
I thought, maybe, she was going to reply to an invite I'd sent out a few weeks ago. But no. She was, in fact, making her own plans. Well, not her own plans... but she was arranging a charity night out in aid of one of her sports teams. She wants me to attend. She wants everyone to attend.
I've been vague. Neither her nor her boyfriend have replied to my invitation to a BBQ that's only ten days away. I am a little angry at the continued lack of confirmations from SG and/or GM on nearly any social engagement. NYE was the same. I am being a little passive/aggressive here though. I'm not concerned about bringing it up with them as there are already plenty of people coming along and I don't care too much if one or two people don't come. The lack of a definitive 'yes' or 'no' always causes a little anxiety when I arrange social events.
So, my appearance at SG's fund raising event will probably depend entirely on whether or not they turn up to my BBQ in a few weeks time, or at least whether or not they accept or decline the invitation before then.
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